It is amazing how the human brain functions, how it can make you crave something/someone, to the point where you are addicted. You start deviating from your path. The goals that you spent on planning your entire life, start to change, just to be more coherent to that “someone”, and you are left in fear questioning, is it all worth it?
Moving on can be one of the hardest things that we have to go through in our lifetime. To illustrate further, some of us choose to not move on and stay regardless of how bad the situation is, or what the circumstances were, just to avoid the pain of moving on.
Experiencing good love that has gone bad, is excruciating.
Nothing can keep you from a happier future than a lingering relationship wound, especially when that cold-hearted “someone” that used to share with you the most sensational feelings for years, has full control over the course of your life and mood to the point where you get depressed, broken and miserable from continuing to expect so much from that “someone”, and at the end of the day, fails almost always to meet your expectations.
What makes this extremely bizarre, is that on the contrary, we have every single tool that can bring us joy, calmness and high level of contentment; and yet we still allow ourselves to be hunted and controlled by that “someone” just for the sake of delivering the right amount of dose that our pathetic heart vigorously needs.
How can we move on, and leave behind us amazing relationships that turned to be toxic, harmful and destructive?
They say that time is the best healer, but I would argue that being surrounded by true friends is a deal-maker.
Firas K.
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